Time goes so fast\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026<\/p>\n
I am sure many of you have\u00a0asked yourself why time goes so fast, you had moments when sadness took hold your soul, you wanted to do something else or you got nostalgic about the time going fast, or not leaving your life at full capacity…<\/p>\n
I\u2019ve posted below a poem written by Octavian Paler, a famous Romanian poet \u00a0who describes the human nature and habits. \u00a0Take a moment, read this poem and start making time for what you really like and appreciate.<\/p>\n
\u201cWe have time for everything.<\/p>\n
Time to sleep, time to run to here and there<\/p>\n
Time to regret that we made mistakes and time to make mistakes again,
\nTime to judge others and to absolve ourselves,
\nWe have time to read and to write, to correct what we wrote, to regret what we wrote,
\nWe have time to make plans and not to respect them,
\nWe have time to make illusions for ourselves and to stir in the ashes later.
\nWe have time for ambitions and sicknesses, time to blame the destiny and the details,
\nWe have time to watch the clouds, the news or some accident,
\nWe have time to banish our doubts, to delay the answers, to break a dream and then reinvent it,
\nWe have time to make friends, to lose friends,
\nWe have time to receive lessons and forget afterwards,
\nWe have time to receive gifts and not to understand them.
\nWe have time for everything.
\nThere is no time for just a bit of tenderness and when we are about to do this we die.
\nI\u2019ve learned some things in my life that I share with you!!<\/p>\n
I\u2019ve learned that you cannot make someone love you
\nAll you can do is to be a loved person; the rest \u2026 depends on the others.
\nI\u2019ve learned that as much as I care others might not care.
\nI\u2019ve learned that it takes years to earn trust and just a few seconds to lose it
\nI\u2019ve learned that it does not matter WHAT you have in your life but WHO you have.
\nI\u2019ve learned that your charm is useful for about 15 minutes to manage in life; afterwards, you should better know something.
\nI\u2019ve learned that it is not good to compare yourself with what others do better but compare yourself with what you can do
\nI\u2019ve learned that it does not matter what happens to people, but it matters what I can do to solve it
\nI\u2019ve learned that no matter how you look at it everything has two sides
\nI\u2019ve learned that you should separate from your loved ones with warm words
\nIt might be the last time you see them
\nI\u2019ve learned that you can still continue for a long time after saying you cannot continue anymore
\nI\u2019ve learned that heroes are those who do what they have to do, when they have to do it regardless the consequences
\nI\u2019ve learned that there are people who love, but do not know how to show it
\nI\u2019ve learned that when I am upset I have the RIGHT to be upset, but not the right to be bad
\nI\u2019ve learned that real friendship continues to exist despite the distance and this is true also for real love
\nI\u2019ve learned that if someone does not love you like you want them to it does not mean that they do not love you with all their heart.
\nI\u2019ve learned that no matter how good of a friend someone is for you that person will hurt you every now and then and that you have to forgive him.
\nI\u2019ve learned that it is not enough to be forgiven by others
\nSometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
\nI\u2019ve learned that no matter how much you suffer,
\nThe world will not stop for your pain.
\nI\u2019ve learned that the past and the circumstances might have an influence on your personality but that YOU are responsible for what you become
\nI\u2019ve learned that if two people have an argument it does not mean that they do not love each other
\nbut the fact that they do not argue does not prove that they love each other.
\nI\u2019ve learned that sometimes you have to put on the first place the person, not the facts
\nI\u2019ve learned that two people can look at the same thing and can see something totally different
\nI\u2019ve learned that regardless the consequences those who are honest with themselves go further in life
\nI\u2019ve learned that life can be changed in a few hours by people who do not even know you.
\nI\u2019ve learned that even when you think there is nothing more you can give when a friend calls you, you will find the strength to help him.
\nI\u2019ve learned that writing just like talking can ease the pains of the soul
\nI\u2019ve learned that those whom you love the most are taken away from you too soon \u2026
\nI\u2019ve learned that it is too difficult to realize where to draw the line between being friendly, not hurting people and supporting your opinions
\nI\u2019ve learned to love and to be loved.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWe have time\u201d, by Octavian Paler.<\/p>\n
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\u201cAvem timp pentru toate.
\nSa dormim, sa alergam in dreapta si-n stanga,
\nsa regretam c-am gresit si sa gresim din nou,
\nsa-i judecam pe altii si sa ne absolvim pe noi insine,
\navem timp sa citim si sa scriem,
\nsa corectam ce-am scris, sa regretam ce-am scris,
\navem timp sa facem proiecte si sa nu le respectam,
\navem timp sa ne facem iluzii si sa rascolim prin cenusa lor mai tarziu.
\nAvem timp pentru ambitii si boli,
\nsa invinovatim destinul si amanuntele,
\navem timp sa privim norii, reclamele sau un accident oarecare,
\navem timp sa ne-alungam intrebarile,
\nsa amanam raspunsurile,
\navem timp sa sfaramam un vis si sa-l reinventam,
\navem timp sa ne facem prieteni, sa-i pierdem,
\navem timp sa primim lectii si sa le uitam dupa-aceea,
\navem timp sa primim daruri si sa nu le-ntelegem.
\nAvem timp pentru toate.
\nNu e timp doar pentru putina tandrete.
\nCand sa facem si asta murim.
\nAm invatat unele lucruri in viata pe care vi le impartasesc si voua!!
\nAm invatat ca nu poti face pe cineva sa te iubeasca
\nTot ce poti face este sa fii o persoana iubita.
\nRestul \u2026 depinde de ceilalti.
\nAm invatat ca oricat mi-ar pasa mie
\nAltora s-ar putea sa nu le pase.
\nAm invatat ca dureaza ani sa castigi incredere
\nSi ca doar in cateva secunde poti sa o pierzi
\nAm invatat ca nu conteaza CE ai in viata Ci PE CINE ai.
\nAm invatat ca te descurci si ti-e de folos farmecul cca 15 minute
\nDupa aceea, insa, ar fi bine sa stii ceva
\nAm invatat ca nu trebuie sa te compari cu ceea ce pot altii mai bine sa faca
\nCi cu ceea ce poti tu sa faci
\nAm invatat ca nu conteaza ce li se intampla oamenilor
\nCi conteaza ceea ce pot eu sa fac pentru a rezolva
\nAm invatat ca oricum ai taia
\nOrice lucru are doua fete
\nAm invatat ca trebuie sa te desparti de cei dragi cu cuvinte calde
\nS-ar putea sa fie ultima oara cand ii vezi
\nAm invatat ca poti continua inca mult timp
\nDupa ce ai spus ca nu mai poti
\nAm invatat ca eroi sunt cei care fac ce trebuie,
\ncand trebuie
\nIndiferent de consecinte
\nAm invatat ca sunt oameni care te iubesc
\nDar nu stiu s-o arate
\nAm invatat ca atunci cand sunt suparat am DREPTUL sa fiu suparat
\nDar nu am dreptul sa fiu si rau
\nAm invatat ca prietenia adevarata continua sa existe chiar si la distanta
\nIar asta este valabil si pentru iubirea adevarata
\nAm invatat ca, daca cineva nu te iubeste cum ai vrea tu
\nNu inseamna ca nu te iubeste din tot sufletul.
\nAm invatat ca indiferent cat de bun iti este un prieten
\nOricum te va rani din cand in cand
\nIar tu trebuie sa-l ierti pentru asta.
\nAm invatat ca nu este intotdeauna de ajuns sa fi iertat de altii
\nCateodata trebuie sa inveti sa te ierti pe tine insuti
\nAm invatat ca indiferent cat de mult suferi,
\nLumea nu se va opri in loc pentru durerea ta.
\nAm invatat ca trecutul si circumstantele ti-ar putea influenta personalitatea
\nDar ca TU esti responsabil pentru ceea ce devii
\nAm invatat ca, daca doi oameni se cearta, nu inseamna ca nu se iubesc
\nSi nici faptul ca nu se cearta nu dovedeste ca se iubesc.
\nAm invatat ca uneori trebuie sa pui persoana pe primul loc
\nSi nu faptele sale
\nAm invatat ca doi oameni pot privi acelasi lucru
\nSi pot vedea ceva total diferit
\nAm invatat ca indiferent de consecinte
\nCei care sunt cinstiti cu ei insisi ajung mai departe in viata
\nAm invatat ca viata iti poate fi schimbata in cateva ore
\nDe catre oameni care nici nu te cunosc.
\nAm invatat ca si atunci cand crezi ca nu mai ai nimic de dat
\nCand te striga un prieten vei gasi puterea de a-l ajuta.
\nAm invatat ca scrisul
\nCa si vorbitul
\nPoate linisti durerile sufletesti
\nAm invatat ca oamenii la care tii cel mai mult
\nIti sunt luati prea repede \u2026
\nAm invatat ca este prea greu sa-ti dai seama
\nUnde sa tragi linie intre a fi amabil, a nu rani
\noamenii si a-ti sustine parerile.
\nAm invatat sa iubesc
\nCa sa pot sa fiu iubit.\u201d<\/p>\n
Avem Timp, de Octavian Paler<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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